Engagement and life changes

The last few months have changed the dynamics of my relationship with my fiance'. I'm not saying that it has changed in any negative way but it has changed in a way that has made us make different choices together. I for a instance,work for a nonprofit organization in which I make little money. I'm educated and work hard and I went into social services for the love of helping people. I love what I do but now that I am engaged I can't only think of my self but I have to think of my future with husband and the life that we ideally would like to have.

 I met my fiance on Aug 2011 we hit it off right off the bat. It was amazing but I couldn't really believe that this man was legitimately honest with me. In previous blogs I've talked about my horrifiying nightmare of a relationship what I wish never happen. There was manipulation, and anything someone with anti social personality would do to get there way. I fell victim of that and with that naive mind, my soul, my trust was vastly depleted.

But here I am today happier than I've ever been. Lucky that my sense of protection and urge to run away didn't scare me enough to NOT give my fiance Marco a chance. If that would have happen I know it would have been the biggest mistake of my life. I found a good man a man that I am lucky to have. Its been almost 3 months since we got engaged and 1 year until we get married. O_O OH my! So this blog will outline our adventure. Starting from us moving in together which will happen in a month from now,saving, budgeting, decorating our bedroom, home, and wedding planning and much more. Stay tuned we have a lot to share.